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madge59
15d ago

how do i find the right girl?

Ibogaine told me "she doesnt love you for your head she loves you for your heart" Before I did ibogaine I didn't even want a relationship. Thinking of women as pawns on my playing field Now I want love but I'm scared of getting hurt e.g cheated on.  I don't want to add more pain into my life and getting messed over by any more people. The 2010's is an era with not that much integrity I thought maybe I'll find a girl who's very into me and take care of her.  After ibo I "integrated" theres a difference between prentending to be nice and actually caring for a person and wanting them to be happy. I could be wrong but thats where I'm at now how do I find the right one? One that will improve my life instead of tear it apart
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vividmeadow80· 15d ago

People keep wondering if they'll find true love, soulmate or life partner. But dont realise that their real soulmate and who they are really looking for is an ideal version of themselves. Your life partner or soulmate is You. Work towards a better, more beautiful you and falling in love with that and you wont have any problem ever finding love.

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steadygrove42· 15d ago

Put in words what i was trying to say, but far better. So true.

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ailis51· 15d ago

Beautifull, i love. Thanks you so much.

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joellen_reads· 15d ago

well, in my experience, you don't, she finds you good luck

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madge59· 15d ago

yeah, a fine women came around 3 times but i didn't notice the signal at that point in time

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ailis51· 15d ago

If you find the solution, give her please.

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patientorchard· 15d ago

Wait...wait...do a ton of Kambo for hunting...wait...more kambo...wait...BUHM!!!  Miracles await!  I can attest, and give witness to the powers of Kambo hunting for a spirit twin flame.  Don't settle for the physical fling and your heart will play the perfect tune to swoon your Buhm of bloom.

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patientorchard· 15d ago

Also in my experience it doesn't work for the woman to find you, the proper old school model is what works with nature.  The man hunts for his queen with the best manners in your presence.  If a woman finds you, in my experience, she might also be one that keeps finding and doesn't have fidelity.  Just my take on the course of nature and how the more wise ones work and have worked for eons.  Only to humans is this model now politically incorrect.

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steadygrove42· 15d ago

Looking for something never works. The law of attraction is total bullshit. Work on yourself, the healthier you become inside your own mind, the more likely you will meet someone nice. Unless your just going for the big boobys and nice ass, and we all know where that leads.

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mistyfalcon17· 15d ago

QFT +1 Give up seeking. Let them come to you. Let gravitation happen, but do not pursue.

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madge59· 15d ago

^ this

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madge59· 15d ago

thanks for the zero judgment and advice ill continue working on myself

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mistyfalcon17· 15d ago

True Love is a feeling, not a person.

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madge59· 15d ago

I'm reading A New Earth by Eckhart tolle. It seems just what I need right now.

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madge59· 14d ago

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQ0lZDWPNA8 watch at 48 mins

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